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I dont need a man!

stopwomenHow many times have we heard this well-known phrase especially in the FemDom community? The feeling that a woman gets when she declares her independence to the world and boy does she mean it. She’s very proud that she’s established enough to never have to experience the emotional and mental torture of bowing down to a man as if she’s crawling for crumbs.

Some men resent it, while other males applaud. Many women are inspired, while another percentage of females are happy with letting the man share control.

So what is considered healthy vs unhealthy when it comes down to a woman not NEEDING a man where men can understand, respect, yet remain attracted to strong women? How can a woman preserve her dignity from dealing with jerks who take advantage from a position of her feminine openness but reap the full benefits of allowing men to provide for her without it feeling uncomfortable to receive?

First of all its not anyone’s fault on who’s right or wrong as we all been taught wrong and/or confused to a certain degree through peer pressure, culture, media etc. The good news is knowing that there is a difference between having a NEED for a man opposed to being NEEDY for a man.

A woman who says she doesn’t need a man most the time is just trying to protect herself from further rejection and abandonment. These mental wounds have not been replaced with correct teachings, rather, suppressed. Personally I’ve done it plenty of times discovering it only provides layers of self deception with temporary relief.

Many women who strictly believe in this statement also assume that men will honor them above all other women who do not swear by this aggressive code of femi-independence (if thats a word).  But men have a deep yearning to feel needed and this is what keeps them attracted to women! Therefore, this can backfire on women who dont understand that this is okay to accept men NEED women to NEED them.

Many of us fems are afraid or ashamed to admit that there were times where we were NEEDY as it turned men off. We promised to never ask for anything to mask our insecurities through arrogant behaviors to make ourselves appear strong.

We teased other women who effortlessly asked men to help them because deep down it was considered weak in OUR eyes if we where in their shoes. We could not/cannot relate to these successful women, warm, open, & receptive. We hate them because of how we see ourselves through them yet we love them because of the results they “get” from men that we cant experience.

Reality is this, men are going to hurt us through life but if we keep trying to obsessively protect ourselves, we miss out on opportunities for men to gladly give beyond our expectations. They WANT to be our heros but in order to receive their protection, their worship, we must be VULNERABLE.

We must be willing to let our guard down and take risks. We must be willing to embrace rejection and not run from it. If a guy, sub turns his back on us we have to use healthy ways of thinking and accept it may not be us all the time. Other times, an its opportunity to grow up.

Being vulnerable at times balances being strong and if women listen to other women only to tell them its wrong then these women don’t know what men want in a woman to maintain attraction for her. They don’t go to men to ask men what they want, they just listen to other women who don’t know any better than to project these ignorant beliefs.

Men want to fix, solve, make a difference. They want to BE used and part of the problem why men hurt us is because of OUR ignorant contributions.

  • We complain too much bc deep down we dont know how to express what we want in “his language” without him feeling blamed.
  • We multitask too fast where men are more simplified
  • We rob their masculine role!

The list goes on and on but in short, it really helps to keep our shared tasks simplified  for men to participate in making life smooth for us. So give it to them, receive and let them happily work for us.

  1. “I NEED a man” is positive and healthy to feel and say. (men will not look down or find us pathetic  )
  2. Don’t be N.E.E.D.Y (this is the real & only reason men look down on women)

Now before someone starts to ask “Well what about men who play games if a woman needs something simple?” What about him? Again, idiots do come along from time to time but that should not discourage a woman. She does not need to act like a closed-off-b*tch, just a woman with few effective boundaries yet open to receive.

I dont expect many people to agree with me on this topic as I felt a quick urge to post something off my chest because I saw 3 females act this way… I will never say I dont need men up to this point because I confronted what was really bothering me in understanding NEED vs NEEDY… Your thoughts?…

 

 

SLAVE LOVE-writings: goddess worship

Princess Simone writes: SlaveRetard sends his undeniable LOVE of worship in an email after months of being away even while worshiping other dommes. The LOVE bug is definitely taking a major effect on him full of pleasure hormones he is unable to shake off.

Financial DominationYou’re clips are FANTASTIC !! I was on my knees !, What a fantastic image quality (resolution) . I am so proud that I contributed to this improvement which hopefully will translate to Your increased monetary income.

It is my duty as Your slave , not just to pay You what You demand, but to seek any opportunity to assist You with any improvements of Your Enterprise. It is such a privilege to be Your slave, to be accepted as a slave by the WINNER in the industry.

To be accepted, in spite of so many of my screw ups. It is turning me on so much to know that You are making four times more then what I do, and that I have to pay You even more. You getting rich is such a joy for me !. Getting poorer for You is an unbelievable JOY !

You are so right, all those young amateur dommes trying to sneak to Your twitter, they only try to advertise themselves. You know me long enough to know I am not flattering You here. I really feel that way.

Your answer to my arrogant email was so powerful, so intelligent and so humiliating that I was crushed . I was defenceless, hating You and loving You at the same time. Once again , please forgive me my arrogance.

I am ready to submit to You in person. Still a r/t virgin, lol. Do You like raping virgins??

GET BLOG NEWS: How a #FinancialDomination slave doubts turned into confidence

You were once a victim and then decided that financial slavery just doesn’t seem to fit into your fetish Lifestyle.

If you hear one more domme scream about cheap slaves or time wasters, your going to break through the temptation to create a personal blog about how many of them just need to STFU!

Your sick and tired of aggressive sales pitches like “buy my clips” to cliche phrases like ” fuck-you-payme” that totally has nothing  to do with want you desire or even asked for! Geesh…

Your screaming in your head “What about me!” while trying to craft it in such a way to not offend a Femdom but come on, this industry segment just sucks! What you really WANT is an irresistible Goddess that’s got her shit together. One who can UNDERSTAND your specific cravings as the two of you grow in harmony.

Of course your not expecting anyone to be perfect just as much as you wouldn’t want high expectations projected onto you as a money-slave either. In other words, you will not submit to just any bullshit that doesn’t fit who you are.

And until you do, you will give her the world and worship the ground she walks upon because she knows you well. Oh how you searched the universe for this woman! “Please Princess I need this in my life!”

Here’s what curious Wxxx (name hidden for privacy purposes) said:
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Princess Simone understands how frustrating this can be when bombarded with endless promos in our inbox even outside of fetish domination unrelated to our desires. Slave-Wxxx asked a remarkable question that most likely made him feel hopeless and disgusted  quote on quote,

“Why do I get ignored after I pay for someones messenger then say that I talk too much yet you cash princesses promote too much!!!”

Every feature is not worth investing in if it doesn’t work for a domme yet many  are just using conventional know-how adopted by domination ethics from the outdated past. Therefore, it’s not your fault that your confused and inflamed about not executing your goals. Also, I can tell in your angry email that you find it “rare” that a Mistress is not interacting with you & building a relationship  BEFORE throwing promotions in your face.

Thats where SpoiledBlackPrincess comes in to reduce your anxiety offering social platforms as an outlet to help you gain the confidence you need and ITS FREE!

I don’t suggest as a highlight to anyone to purchase my messenger ID’s just to be on the list then pay more for conversation. NO WAY! A resourceful tool like twitter, or a community platform is way easier that way you and I both can have fun & you can get ALL the resources you need to align to “your” wants accurately.

Get your suggestions, comments, or feedback automatically sent here to my  contact page.  An extreme positive impact on receiving your concerns will improve Princess Simones fetish-artwork dramatically for your navigation experience.   Thank you to my dedicated fans as always XoXo

 

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